However, in the great expanse that is the internet, you may encounter gentlemen brazenly claiming to have transcended to a level called sage time. Some of them speak about themselves as brothers, and they state that the time they act as sages is only a few minutes, while others claim that it lasts longer, up to a few hours, and, in some cases, even days.
So what explains this thing known as sage time? Sage time: what exactly is it?
Where does the slang word SAGE TIME come from?
This specific term, also known as “sage mode” has some significant ties to Japan. The literature of sage time states that male sexual partners frequently withdraw from thee situation into the sage general four emptiness after sexual completion. That withdrawal sometimes triggers deep sadness, panic, remorse and guilt that are, quite frankly, bewildering to others.
After ejaculation, boys sometimes also experience a "cooling off" period, when they may still have an erection, but have a complete lack of interest in or excitement about sex. If you were to overstimulate your penis during this vulnerable time, you would experience an uncomfortable, if not distressing, response.
The old saying goes, “Before masturbating is a devil, after masturbating is a Buddha.” This is a concise expression of the concern, that all pleasures appear diminished (crestfallen!) in the wake of that explosion, or those spasms, of ecstasis.
But the claim is not just folklore; it’s supported by science, which is better known as "the male refractory period.” Terms aside, that means that there is a definite non-adherence to interest in sex over the stated period. Since the penis is nonrespondent, no potential distractions really are necessary outside of the heart.
What explains this awkward time?
This is, at its most basic level, a natural body defense, to protect against — and also, reminder not to — allow men to menstruate. When the brain is filled with dopamine, as it is in the throes of sex or masturbation, other sensations of pleasure are experienced, including excitement and joy.
But we must remember that outdoor sex is a rigorous physical activity – certainly for men! This is an exhausting process and in addition to replenishing our supply of sperm, our reproductive organs require time to rest and recover.
To fend off the emotional low, which comes with sweating, the body's hormonal equilibrium runs on a error-correction after an orgasm. This leads to a diminished amount of dopamine and a decrease in the release of serotonin with an attendant increase in prolactin secretion. Because of this, combined with psychological tensions, men are left helplessly collapsed.
How long is Sage Times?
As I mentioned before, the length of male vitality differs greatly by person and is related with age, resistance, even amount and time. As much as in one's little end there when you are old, it can last for hours or even days when you are young an hour is enough. Looked at from this angle, it is entirely possible for a young man to have sex seven times in one night.
Sexologists usually describe the sexual response cycle in terms of four separate stages: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. Although men and women undergo similar cycles of sexual response, significant differences exist between them. The human male sexual response contains four more-or-less rigid phases, ending with the inappropriate period after the resolution phase.
Although having orgasms back to back is not common among women either, their sexual response cycle is more flexible and can accommodate a continuing state of arousal (allowing for chain orgasms) where men have a prolonged refractory period. In addition, couples will always end up tired from sex as long as it demands a lot of physical energy and while it is beautiful psychologically and relaxing, it is tiring at same time.
Internationally, men have a shorter resolution phase and, fr1quently, they fall asleep to sleep soonest as they have a more obvious fatigue.
Any way we can shorten this Sage time?
It may not be realistic to eliminate the period of inappropriateness entirely, but there are certainly effective ways to reduce it. Here are some approaches that help to shorten this phase:
Regular exercise is fundamental in maintaining great health and excellent sexual function, especially as time cannot be turned back. There are certain activities, including swimming, running, or other aerobic activities, that can be especially helpful.
It is also important to have good nutrition. Many reports have been given that alcohol and the use of tobacco harm male sexual performance by affecting androgen production leading to the reduction in male libido. Moreover, an unhealthy diet may cause obesity [3] and excessive hormonal imbalance, involving high estrogen, and lower androgens, thus, endangering sexual dynamism.
The quality of one's sex life also matters a lot. The refractory period depends on the intensity of sexual stimulation and the individual approach toward sex in general; therefore, improved sexual experiences and an increased interest in sex can sometimes decrease an individual's refractory period.
And single people (men and women, of course) may practice using sex toys as a means to improve the quality of their sex and the frequency of their sex.
Furthermore it is important to remember that we should not be like obsessing and concerning about how much we need to sex/porn, if you are getting tired, fatigue, have residues of the previous day alcohol/physical activity and had a night that goes into the next morning is nice to think twice about it! The best sex includes a healthy combination of the few sexual experiences he/she currently has in accordance to the psychological and physiological needs for sexual release, whichever way you might expect this to be structured.
How do you deal with sage time?
Everyone knows what "sage time" is, after you masturbate or have sex. One can definitely stem his personal sage time with a little extra attention to certain details that will make the overall experience more enjoyable, both for you and a partner.
Gentle friendship and care are key, and the more loving attention the better the experience can be. In addition, the selection of a love toy can, in special cases, supplement the experience and bring joy to intimate scenes.
For couples wanting to achieve full understanding of their own and each other’s sexual response cycle — adopt a range of patterns, and playful interactions in their sexual lifestyle. After all, balance is key for good sex, regardless of whether your partner isn’t present but your personal sex toys are.
In conclusion
The materialization of sage time is the body's natural self defense; it is not a mistake nor a shortcoming. With the help of education and careful management, both partners can experience fully the pleasure of union meanwhile protecting themselves physically and emotionally.
The old adage of sex being about the journey, not the destination couldn't be more accurate because the crux of sex isn't some rat race in the never-ending quest for action, but rather the chance to create and sustain the warmth and quality of a confidently loving bond. If you are still in pain, or you have psychological issues or complexity as a result of your loss, you should consider professional help.
