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Unfortunately, that wonderful little prostate tends to be overlooked or neglected. Yet, this very powerful erogenous area can produce body-shaking orgasms that are better than penile-induced orgasms and in a class by themselves for pleasure.
If you think you are ready to unearth this unexplored treasure of orgasmic delight, keep reading. Whole-body writers, I welcome you to join me on this whirl through the world of the massager built just for the prostate.
(If you are already familiar with prostate pleasure, you can jump right to the step-by-step guide.)
The prostate gland has a number of important functions in the male anatomy. But for the sake of this article, we will focus on the pleasure side of this little walnut-sized muscle.
Then, there's prostate play, a.k.a. the "prostate milk," a resourceful way to access one of the most pleasurable pressure points on the male body.
The prostate is found just in, about 2 inches from, the rectal wall, and is encompassed by a lot of nerve fiber endings, which accounts for the pleasurable feelings that are produced.
When pressure is softly excreted here, the subsequent feeling is out of the world as it multiplies the effect as a part of great G spot.
Can Prostate Toys Heighten Pleasure?Toys for your prostate are designed to peek through the anal area and nudge up against your prostrate, tapping and vibrating to tantalizingly push pleasure waves over the top.
Prostate pleasureWith male sex toys it’s all about the prostrate pleasure, so knowing that which part you are massaging and why is totally invaluable when it comes to experimenting with a prostate massager.
That is, it is possible to stimulate the prostate both externally (from outside the body, via the perineum) and internally (through the rectum, via the anus). The most sensational prostate stimulation comes directly from the P-spot. With that said, gentle pressure to the perineum — the taint — can produce a more gentle, but still pleasurable sensation.
By combining the two ways of stimulation, you will be able to reach the highest peak of pleasure ever imagined. From what I’ve heard, these so-called “prostate orgasms” feel even more “full-bodied” and “absolutely euphoric” — and centuries-long paradise-seeking prog rock albums for the brain — with zero refractory period, which means you can experience all that bliss for an entire afternoon.
That point where you hit the miracle zone is very difficult to achieve with just your own fingers, if not totally impossible. Luckily, the emergence of male vibrators, specific anal toys and prostate massagers have made the act so much easier to navigate.
Prostate massagers really need you to know some important information to get maximum satisfaction.
So it seems that there are some ways to go about choosing a prostate massager.
It is imperative that the toy is curved.
They all have this curvature to the tip, those prostate massagers. It is designed in this manner as it is closer to navel and is in the upper wall of rectum so as to apply direct pressure for target the Prostate.
Without this bend, direct interaction is quite challenging.
Butt plugs can be fun to wear, but are not necessarily the best option for P-spot play.
It is important to note that unless it has been specifically created to curve and be big enough, a butt plug might not be able to properly stimulate the prostate. But they can do indirect stimulation, which is pleasurable too.
I personally find it a bit frustrating when people get confused and butt plugs and prostate massagers get lumped together, because they’re really two very different types of pleasurable play.
You also want to take the size of the massager into consideration.
Best Toys for Butt Play The best sex toys for anal play are insertable toys, which usually range from 4 to 8 inches in length. A five incher by 1.25 inches is consider a safe and medium compromise.
Sex toy safety of butt plugs is normally under debate, so here is my bullet list of dead-or-alive results: Non-flared dildos or other objects with no wide base on them can get sucked into the rectum and caused a visit to the emergency room! Opposed to the vagina, the anus does not have a natural endpoint, so be sure that your toys are selected thoughtfully.
Must-have features and bonuses of a vibrator for the prostate The requirement of a firm, good-quality materials — Quality silicone material is frequently the preferred sort.
Remote controlled prostate massagers Though these sex toys are great even when used manually, massagers with remotes can make the experience a lot more exciting by adding another layer of fun and ease.
Besides, extra stimulation near the bottom of the massager could be a nice little bonus.
So, let’s move on to the step-by-step guide to using a prostate massager the right way.
Now, the fun starts in earnest!
Once you’ve learned about prostate massagers and how amazing they can be, you’re ready to consider applying one.
Step 1: Give your toy a once-over Make sure that your toy is super clean.
It is extremely important to keep anal toys clean, due to the fact that the rectum can have so many different types of bacteria residing in it. You can cover the toy with condoms for easier clean-up if you wish. Seriously make sure those fingers as well as any devices going up your bum are clean.
2 Start with penile stimulation as a warm up.
Before using the prostate massager give yourself some penile stimulation to warm up. You may lightly stroke your penis or play with your balls as you watch something that gets you going, but be careful not to take yourself to the limit of cumming. The goal is to get really turned on before you begin any anal activities.
3 Apply lubricant generously.
This cannot be stressed enough: lube is a must.
As the anus naturally does not lubricate itself, you will need to use an appropriate lube. The best lubricants are often thicker and more gel like, and are great because they stay put on skin and toys. Make sure you lube up well, for both your ass and the toy. If you feel any discomfort/abrasion, slow down and add more lube.
4 Apply pressure with your fingers to warm compliments up.
For extra comfort and ease in feeling around with your fingers, you can now slip into a pair of lubricated latex gloves. After you have gotten a clean finger in there, you should wiggle it around, and perhaps even make a "come hither" motion in the direction of the g-spot. Instead, you can stroke your penis and massage your perineum with your other hand.
5 EASE the object in, while tuning in to your body.
Once you're feeling good, it's time to use the massager. Gently encourage the toy in with the anus, making sure the perineum stimulator is in the right place. Slow is essential as a beginner, do not push hard.
If you have trouble with insertion, gently twist the toy as it goes in and add lubricant as necessary.
When the massager is adjusted to your satisfaction, turn it to the lowest setting to confirm the alignment is correct.
6 Keep this toy in position and free up your hands to do other things!
Prostate tools are created to fit snugly so the wearer can experience no hands pleasure. You are free to use your hands for yourself, your partner, or otherwise, After you've inserted the toy to satisfaction.
7 Experiment with different positions.
Exploring different positions for prostate play is totally fine. Feel free to experiment with various positions to see which one is most comfortable and brings you the most enjoyment.
8 Experience multiple orgasms.
But prostate orgasms, unlike penile ones, can lend themselves to cycling through multiple climaxes since they don’t have a refractory period. And many claim that these orgasms are “deeper” and “stronger” than those achieved from a penis. Ejaculation may also occur more slowly, with less force.
To get the very most from your potential for pleasure derive from the prostate, why not include a top-tier, and remote-controlled, prostate massager?
This article is going to teach you exactly how to properly use a prostate massager.
Go slow, tune in to your body and use plenty of lube. To increase the power of your orgasm, and build up the sensations, don’t forget to take deep soothing breaths.
