Introduction
Many grown women feel embarrassed and even shy when they first try to buy sex toys. Choosing The Perfect Sex Toy Choosing the perfect sex toy can be intimidating, as everyone has high expectations when it comes to functionality and appearance and with thousands upon thousands of sex toys purportedly out there on the market. For instance:
"I just want something that can give me that full-body thrill, and that's versatile. Anything like that at all?"
"What are the best toys for travel in the BDSM community?"
"Help me pick out something to give my bf to get out of the habit of just using his hands to get himself off."
"I am currently attending school. Is there a toy in the dormitory that I could use?"
“My girlfriend doesn’t really feel like she has a LOT of sensation. Is there any such thing as tough chew toys?
“My partner is too thin-skinned.” Is there a way that might help him last longer in bed?
“I want to keep my living with my parents a surprise. Is there any alternative that doesn’t look like a conventional sex toy?”
What kind of sex toys are good for girls?
When it comes to ladies using their hands to pleasure themselves, there are really two camps: inside and out. A few women are born with the natural capacity for internal pleasure, but no matter their sexual orientation, the rest can get off just fine when their clitoris is involved (your standard "clitoral orgasm"). Others might have discovered this enjoyment by chance and self-exploration. In a very small nutshell, only a small percentage of women can have the vaginal type of orgasm, and nearly all can have the clitoral type. No, orgasms are not hard-wired in terms of 'hierarchies', you are the one best placed to know what kind of orgasms works best for you!
If you’re not sure which type of orgasm is going to be best to satisfy your desires, then it might be a good idea to buy a variety of the different types of toys so they can experiment and find what is going to work best for them.
Clitoral vibrator (egg vibrator)
When I asked a bunch of my lady friends, I found out that most of them had picked a first sex toy, and that toy was an egg vibrator – some sort of cute-pink little thing that often was sold with some sexy undergarments. Wireless egg vibrators are the most common egg vibrators and are made from silicone. These toys generally focus on vibrating or sucking women for clitoral stimulation. Egg vibrators are an excellent option during couple\'s play as they are are not meant to be inserted and can be used to stimulate other external erogenous zones.
The benefits of egg vibrators are obvious: small, can be stored anywhere, easy to carry in a purse or travel bag and the discretion factor. Some models are even disguised to look like actual cosmetic products. This also makes it so they can be explained away as "decorations" or "beauty equipment that just looks weird," if you're perhaps discovered in the act. Moreover, because there is no need for penetration, such devices very user friendly for inexperienced and pain-sensitive users.
How Much do You Know About the vibrator?
"Urgh!" was all I could get out of the gag, plus an obscene sloshing sound as my juices drained onto it as he forced it deep into me! Unlike egg vibrators, which are meant for "external orgasms," the orgasm is mainly caused by a vibrator being inserted inside of the body. These machines help women have a vaginal orgasm by rocking, vibrating, thrusting back and forth. Some vibrators also incorporate the vibrating hit of egg vibrators providing 2 functions in 1 toy. Vibrators are also very good for couples to use the internal G-spot or for women that use the vagina as a point of stimulation.
But if you think vibrators are just for "electric cucumbers," you're wrong; there are a variety: realistic dildos (with a more realistic sense of impact and feel), spinning bead vibrators (with protruding, rotating beads), G-spot vibrators (a special shape designed for the G spot), and AV vibrators (with a big head that can bring widespread stimulation, but not used for internal insertion). And in the case of rod-type items, it will be noted that they should be careful to store as they are not private.
Multipurpose vibrator
Have you ever enjoyed too-pleasure from three specific erogenous zones all at once? This type of vibrator synchrony melds internal and external pleasure with a whole host of features like oscillating, vibrating, tongue pleasing and sucking. For women who feel this is something they would like to try to gain the “internal and external orgasms at the same time” this may be an option. That said, multi-tasker vibrators can be a little strange looking. Some models can be used vaginally or anally, and some also double as vibrators.
How can I tell which one is the best?
But as you’re making your first purchase, it’s important think of your budget too: starting with a simple G-spot wand or an enlarged egg vibrator never hurt. Decorating with roses If you live at home or in a dorm, you might consider a smaller rose shape. If you have a clitoris that's a little less sensitive, aim for a model that offers stronger vibration and suction for an even more intense experience. If you are interested in looking for internal orgasms, a g spot wand or a realistic dildo may be your best choice. With the above in mind, if you are someone who likes both kinds of pleasures together, then perhaps it would be best for you to go with a vibrator that provides more than one features. And if your partner is quite sensitive, you may actually want to use delay rings to help keep ticking over!
In conclusion
After reading this, we hope position yourself to choose a toy from our selected you can really feel about, and make that a fun and intimate exploration in its own right. To help other women who are still feeling all muddled up, please share comments on anything you have learned or gone through since, we would love to hear them.
