Does the thought of warm, dripping candle wax onto your skin tantalize you and stimulate your senses? Or maybe you’ve fantasized about some enticing, refreshingly cool ice cube wickedly applied across your naked self sending delicious shivers rippling through your body. Temperature play is a fun and risky way to try something new and and kick your sexual experiences up a notch whether the weather is steaming or freezing.
In this extensive guide, we’re going to talk about the exciting world of temperature play and give you all the advice you need to heat (and cool) your sex toys or male sex toys right way, and we’ll suggest some of the best toys made for the job to help get you started. Get ready to make the bedroom as cool as ice or as hot as flames!
Temperature Play: What Is It?
Temperature play is the fun, exciting use of hot and/or cold in the bedroom. And while you may want to try using ordinary items as temperature play aids – like candles or ice cubes, say – temperature play sex toys are designed to be safe, well-managed and to enhance the sensations.
Remember safety is the first concern, and you don't want to hurt yourself. Using ice cubes on your skin is typically safe, but avoid putting ice cubes (or anything else) in your anus or vagina. Likewise, When using candles, make sure you get those special low-temp candles specifically for body use, and use only the melted candle wax on the outside of your skin to avoid any harm.
Sex Toys: Hot and Cold
To take your temperature play adventures to the next level, you're going to need some sex toys specifically created with this heart-pounding activity in mind. Below are some of the most popular and top suggested options:
Stainless Steel Sex toy * Their high quality design will turn your private playtime into fun time * The material for this product is very polished, corrosion can wear a very long time, heat or cold is easily to accept. They are especially well-suited to anyone who likes large, sudden changes in temperature.
Glass Sex Toys: You can use glass for long temperature sessions with your toys as they heat up at a slow pace and hold it for a long time, so you feel everything.
Automatic Heating and Cooling Sex Toys: these easy to use toys are convenient to use yet you often find mixed reviews and various safety issues. For all intents and purposes, it’s better to use metal or glass toys and control the temperature yourself to control how it feels.
Using Heating Steel and Metal Tools and Sex Toys
Here’s how to go about preheating your steel and metal sex toys the right way:
Hot Water: Place toy in sink with hot (but not boiling) water for 2 minutes.
Check the Temperature: Lift the toy from the water and place it against the inside of your wrist. It won't be too hot, but warm enough to be comforting and get your senses going.
*Lubricate & Play: *for best results apply a small amount of lube to the toy prior to playing for that real feel experience! Just one more thing to remember, and that's metal toys do cool rather quickly, so be ready for that loss of heat.
Sex Toys Made of Stainless Steel and Metal: Keep it Cool
In order to chill and warm-up your stainless steel or metal sex toys properly, here's what you should do:
Cold Water: Stick your toy for about two minutes into a dish of cold water. For more de-cool stickiness, throw in some ice cubes into the water.
Check the Temperature : Retrieve the toy from the water and check its temperature using the back of your hand. Make sure it is cold, but not too cold to touch.
Lubricate and Play: Advised apply lube then indulge into play. Keep in mind that this technique is most useful for fleeting bursts of cold instead of lasting cold sensations; metal toys will warm up fast once inside your body.
Heating And Cooling Glass Sex Toys
The procedure for glass toys is a tad lengthier, but the same concept applies.
Warming: Place the toys in warm water (not exceeding 25?C) for approximately 5 minutes. Glass toys will also stay warm longer because they are able to retain heat so well.
Chilling: Place the toy in a bowl of cold water for approximately five minutes. For an even COOLER experience, drop in some ice cubes. Glass dildos and glass butt plugs are easily the most visually stunning of sex toys. Glass is always hard as a rock and again, it can hold temperatures for a very long time, much longer than metal.
In summary
Adding temperature play to other types of sensation play like bondage and sensory deprivation can be a new and exciting way to spice up your sex life. Just be sure your exploits all revolve around cleanliness, safety and mutual consent. Discover and enjoy the exciting world of temperature play, either with hot steel dildos or exhilarating ice cubes!
