However, something I’ve realized is that determining which sex toys we buy is actually very much like the rather perfunctory act of selecting a pair of shoes because both decisions have a direct effect on how comfortable and happy we ultimately feel. Like the shoes we put on our feet — the pairs that might feel like nothing as we breeze through the world, yet still lead to painful blisters — the sex toys we use can run the gamut from what feels like heaven to what feels like a highway, and things can turn quite painful when too much too large gets involved.
Plus there's that they fact we all have individually shaped, and sensitivity levels all over our bodies just like how we all like different shoes, from some who can cum in five minutes to those who take half an hour to climax.
Therefore, Discovering the most suitable sex toys really depends on one's personal sensitivity rather than just going with what others suggest or swear.
What are the correlates of body sensitivity?
Congenital elements
The human anatomy is complex, and our body structure show us that many nerves tend to exist on a male's penis with a heavy concentration in the sensitive region around the glans. Although most people have two nerve branches, others may have a considerable difference – they may have eight, nine or even an incredible thirteen nerve branches The more there are multiple branches of nerve to stimulation can be stronger and deeper.
Similarly, a girl’s clit is packed with tons of nerve endings, and if those nerves are spread out a good bit, the sensitivity on your clit could go through the roof.
Factors acquired
Lifestyle and psychological factors are the most dominant factors regarding the levels of acquired susceptibility. Regular massage of the sensitive parts, or tight clothing worn for long intervals, causes a gradual loss of sensation.
Additionally, chronically dealing with stress or feelings of anxiety can trigger the body to release increased amounts of cortisol and adrenaline, both of which can interfere with the nervous system's ability to respond, and subsequently – decrease sensitivity to different kinds of stimuli.
How can you know how sensitive you are?
A simple test can be done to determine skin sensitivity.
Process of sensitivity self-monitoring test for males
Pinch test: Gently squeeze the top of the penis with your finger, when the foreskin is pulled back as far as possible. If you can\'t help but scratch because you feel that itchin\', it\'s very sensitive.
Examine the smoothness. If the glans is soft and has several fine wrinkles on its surface, there is a normal degree of sensitivity. If on the other hand it is very full, smooth; then she is too sensitive.
Study how long you took to masturbate.
Orgasm in 5 minutes: you are quite sensitive
Orgasm within 5–10 minutes: average sensitivity
Decreased sensitivity: taking over 10 minutes to orgasm
Methods of measuring forms of girls’ sensitivity alone
This means you only need to feel something and your clit flies, well, your clitoris is pretty sensitive; if it feels something but nothing much, you might be moderately sensitive; if you feel some more intense clit pleasure but not the max you can get from rubbing it with your hands or sex toys, you have quite a high sensitivity.
How to pick the right sex toy for you?
For Males
Options for very sensitive men
If you’re a self-proclaimed sensitive-body, it might be worth choosing a less intense manual model like the Pocket Pussy. Such a simple structure, pleated-ring pattern will give you a superb simulation - not too much, not too little! - And will allow you to get used to the incredible sensations of the HOLE gradually.
Options for Men With Hypoallergenic
If you feel you have a low sensitivity level, perhaps look for an electric masturbation cup with more intense features. Such delimited male sex toys can provide a range of stimulation experiences by properly combining sucking, vibrating, and stretching, for example.
For Females
The choice of most sensitive females
For women with a very sensitive constitution, you might want to avoid sex toys that are too big or too classifying. Sucking or vibrating toys that are not meant to penetrate the body, but offer gentle sucking or vibrating on sensitive parts are also more fitting for individuals looking for a type of slow journey into the game of pleasure.
Some options for very sensitive females
For a person with reduced sensitivity, a plush toy that only has a single function may not be enough. It’s best to stick with powerful in-body toys, like dual-action vibrators. These high-tech devices address a variety of arousal sensations, often combining vibration, stretching, rotation and sucking, for a more complex, intense feeling.
To sum up
It can be tempting to fall into the ease of the idea that more is better, and that better sex toys lead to better orgasms, as well as to purchase one under peer pressure after genuine review of a friends or a particularly persuasive blogger.
However, in the end you might find that that splurge does not suit your own lifestyle, but only realize that when you return it and are left with a dusty artifact sitting on a shelf.
hence it's very recomend.that each person will chose the sex toy be best suitable for itself.the maness such a long road to pleasure if one takes the wrong mounting or turn.
