Let's talk about squirting, a topic that, while absolutely intriguing, is often mistaken for something that only exists in the broad spectrum of sex. If you're wondering what squirting really feels like and how it differs from female ejaculation or even whether it's possible, you're in the right place. Only together can we debunk all the myths surrounding this topic, cut through the nonsense, and who knows, unlock a whole new level of enlightenment that is yet to be discovered by you.
What Does Squirting Mean? (Tip: It’s Not What You Think)
It happens "when the bladder neck becomes blocked and the fluid can't flow as usual," Liana says. Keep in mind though that squirting is not the same as female ejaculation or peeing. In female ejaculation, small, milky secretion comes out from the 'female prostate' or Skene's glands. By contrast, squirting produces a huge quantity of a slightly different form of liquid (when compared to cum), and it can literally soak the sheets under you. I do need to make clear that it is totally fine if squirting is not your thang. All of us have different things we like sexually - squirting is not everyone's cup of tea!
What's the Feel of Squirting?
Picture the most intensely satisfying orgasm and then multiply the hell out of it, with an incredible twist — the raw release is that profound, that passionate, that far beyond typical. Some people report that it is an extremely strong feeling of pleasure that is unlike a regular orgasm; others might experience it as being similar to the need to urinate (don’t worry, it’s not the same thing). There is no "right" way to think abt squirting; everyone's experience with squirting is their own.
Can Anybody Squirt? (Spoiler alert: No!)
A quick aside to clear up a common myth: not everyone can squirt, and not everyone wants to. Studies estimate that 10% to 54% of women experience squirting or ejaculation, though some studies found the figure was closer to 69%. It is also important to mention that many of these experiences remain unreported, mostly because of a sense of social shaming and because there are not frank and candid open discussions about female pleasure. If the idea of squirting appeals to you though, keep in mind it’s a journey rather than a destination. It is all about finding what you like and what feels good for yourself.
How to Squirt: The Complete Guide
Are you ready to get on the road to squirting? Here are a few great ways to get started exploring this:
Start with personal exploration: Masturbating is an amazing way to find out what you really enjoy without the pressure to perform. Some studies show that Netori (Cuckholding) may be required to experience squirting.
– Try getting it in from different angles: Some sex positions like doggy style or reverse cowgirl can provide increased penetration that might be able to hit that G spot just right.
You can also use curved toys or G-spot vibes as sex toys to help you access these sensitive spots. Also, don't forget that clitoral stimulation is also an option; sometimes hitting both at the same time works wonders!
Chill out and let go: Stress can put a serious damper on your ability to have a good time. Try to be in the moment and in tune with how you feel, rather than obsessing over what this means for you.
Talk to your partner: If you are trying out squirting with a partner, tell him what you want and feel comfortable doing.
Squirting Myths Debunked: It's About Time We Completely Verified This Information
First thing first, let's dispel a few common squirting myths:
— First things first: not everyone can squirt. That’s okay if some people don’t squirt.
Secondly, squirting is not just pee myth is a total falsehood. Even though the fluid originates from the bladder and is very similar in appearance to urine, it is quite different.
The third myth would have us believe that squirting always comes included with sheet-soaking floods – but that isn’t always the case. The volume of the fluid also can differ from one person to another.
And finally, the fourth myth is that squirting doesn't exist. This is simply untrue! Both science and anecdotal evidence agree on something: squirting is a real phenomenon; not all women experience the gushing during orgasm.
What's the Stigma? We Should Discuss It
The stigma on squirting was only a part of the lengthy societal taboo around female pleasure in general. In the absence of in depth study of female anatomy and sexual pleasure, there are a number of myths and misunderstandings as well. Thankfully, we live in a time where sex and pleasure are becoming increasingly less taboo to talk about, with more research that aims to honor the countless ways in which sex can be experienced.
Concluding Remarks: Investigating Your Enjoyment
When it comes to sexual pleasure, I`TMll be the first to admit that there are a great many ways to view squirting. The experience of discovering what feels good and satisfying is all about YOU, and whether that involves trying new things or just engaging on a whole new level in this area of sexuality, it’s all good. Just keep in mind that pleasure is not about what is normal or isn’t, it’s about what feels good to you and gives you what you want out of sex, and that there is no such thing as THE “right” way to explore this.
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