Many women when it gets to the point of wanting to have a real publicly high-five worthy make out moment need to justify (to not only men but to themselves) why they are just so damn assertive. There’s no doubt about it, there is something about self-confidence that is attractive and it is impossible to ignore. Sometimes, a woman that knows what she wants and is not afraid to get it (on her own), can be a lot more attractive than a lady who just waits for things to happen to her.
Initialization is not just making an effort to earn his loving or admiration but this is the very act of expressing desire, claiming your own body, and maintaining the sense of mutuality in the quest for closeness and intimacy. Of couse, you can also try to use some male sex toys to improve your sex activities.
What to Do When You Feel Emotionally Blocked?
Are you worried about being shot down?
There are times when he is simply tired or preoccupied with other things on his mind, and duty. This does not mean he is losing interest, though. A moment’s distraction is not what defines you; it’s just a moment.
Do you fear to be judged?
Your honest and daring way of being is sure to be super magnetic to someone who honors and appreciates unpretentious authenticity. If he can't handle the fact that you're blunt, that says more about his character than yours.
You nervous that you're not experienced?
You don’t have to put on a perfect show for the baby to take its first steps. A soft kiss, a closer hug, or a nice compliment is all that is sometimes necessary to make another person feel loved and valued. Think of it as a dance; with every step your grace will come to you easily!
Set the Atmosphere For His Desire All Day
Start the process well before sleep, so that a sense of intimacy and closeness will be established. Let your interest marinate all day.
Start the first day in the morning on purpose.
You can get the idea across from the beginning with a little joke: “Can’t wait for tonight.” Throw an emoji in if you feel it’s appropriate for some humor.
Try using some indirect body language clues.
Wear his signature cologne, or take a bit of risk and wear something you know he’ll like that is a bit unexpected. Your body language communicates all kinds of messages, sometimes without you even realizing it.
Girls love it when you tease them, so make it a part of your routine throughout the day.
Wear his clothes, let them hang into you while you walk around. Play with his hair with your fingers. Tell a joke that only the two of you would get. This is a long burn so it is important to start the flame sooner rather than later!
When opportunity arises, get a physical handle on them.
The second that he looks like he may be distracted, jump up on his lap, and look him straight in the eyes. “I want you,” give him that look, and whisper. Just ask him point-blank, “ Can you give me attention? He won't be able to refuse that offer.
Get something spontaneous in the shower while you can.
Smiling, say, “The water is just right — are you coming in?" Do this, then, tenderly kiss his shoulder as you stroke his back and let the rest be up to his discretion.
Turn intimacy into a memorable date.
Spend time with just the two of you. Light candles for a cozy atmosphere. Encourage to him wear something he feels genuinely great in and treat the date and sex with same sense of urgency as great sex on a normal day.
Have a special code of your own.
Maybe “It’s raining” isa wonderful secret code for “let’s stay in and relish each other’s company.” The secret signals spice up encounters, as well as adding a bit more pleasure and privacy to your experience.
Communicate using “I” statements about what you want.
You could say, “I want you right now,” or ask “May I kiss you?” Or perhaps you could say, "I can't stop thinking about what you did and would like to give it another try?
Introduction: Gentle Emotional Leadership as Initiation
It is not to do with authority and control: it is about connection. Her claim to fame is completely transforming the everyday, even the mundane, into unbelievable memories of her loving presence. You are not required to carry the burden in every scenario. But if you yearn for something, chase it with confidence.
One brave and honest act may have the lasting power to give you guys a cherished memory you’ll both remember for years to come.
