A blowjob is often described as a very arousing and deeply satisfying feeling. It can be warm, wet and tight, creating a cocoon of intimate sensation around you. Lips, tongue and even the soft release of breath can meet each other to stimulate the senses in an extraordinary way. In addition, the rhythm, suction and wetness are a close approximation of the sensations that would come with intercourse, intensifying pleasure overall.
To many people this is better to having regular sex, because concentrate attention towards each other and also strengthen partnership deeply. But the feeling can vary greatly, depending on different factors, such as the strategies used, the emotional bond between the couple, and how comfortable and safe the two of you feel in that particular moment.
Is It Only a Bodily Problem?
Absolutely not at all. For many, a feeling of emotional rapport is a critical part of the experience. When we are mutually attracted to each other and the kiss of fire begins, oral play can be scary, but also bonding. This act produces something very rewarding but is also combined with elements such as trust, anticipation, and the emotional depth that is given to this act through the intimate eye contact above.
What You Can Do to Make It Feel Even Better?
Talk to your partner about what sensations feel good to you. Play with rhythmic strokes by changing up the speed and pressure of your strokes. Add some hands for extra stimulation, mixing oral with a light hand job. You might also want to experiment with temperature – perhaps using a warmed lubricant or even a very cold drink in the process to heighten the experience.
Male Sex Toys That Heighten the Mood
Scented lubricants or tantalizing wands can work well with your toys and the Glow Ring for the ultimate experience. Male sex toys can add another layer to foreplay, and if you’re relatively new to performing oral on your partner, they can be ideal for easing any pressure or anxiety you might have around it.
The Dispelling of Common Myths Myths:
Everybody loves it. Tastes differ a lot: person A might have a lot of fun here, but person B would dislike them. Lie: It’s only for the recipient. In fact, those who perform oral receive a sense of power and sexiness as well. Myth: It is simple to do. The problem is, to really get ahead with oral, you need feedback and practice.
A Few Final Words
When done properly, with both parties’ consent and enthusiasm, a blowjob can be an incredibly pleasurable, emotionally intimate experience for the recipient. And, in the end, what really matters is figuring out what feels good for both you and your partner. This intimate act has a no universal “right” method.
As much fun as using toys like the Glow Ring (or flavored lubes) can be for couples, it's critical to be mindful that the most enjoyable experiences (and orgasms) come from an open line of communication and honest intimacy between partners, not the technique you use on them.
